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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Author Q&A With Matthew Dicks & a Giveaway!

Hello, my Muses!

Instead of a book review, I wanted to treat everyone with a Q&A and a Giveaway. Awhile back I reviewed Matthew Dick's novel Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend (which you can view HERE) and was so blown away that I just had to talk to him about it. He was not only gracious enough to answer my questions, but also sent me a signed hardcover copy of his novel to give away to one lucky winner!

This Interview & Giveaway should have been posted on my blog months ago, but as some of you may know I ended up getting very sick last fall and I went on a hiatus. While it frustrates me that I didn't get this posted closer to the book's release date, I believe that sometimes things happen for a reason. Maybe this post will catch the interest of someone who hasn't heard about Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend. Or maybe it will give previous readers a different way to look at the novel. Either way, I am absolutely thrilled to share this unique Q&A with everyone.

Enjoy!





P.S. Don't forget to scroll down to the bottom so that you can enter for a chance to win an autographed hardcover copy of Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend by Matthew Dicks!

Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend

Imaginary friend Budo narrates this heartwarming story of love, loyalty, and the power of the imagination—the perfect read for anyone who has ever had a friend . . . real or otherwise Budo is lucky as imaginary friends go. He's been alive for more than five years, which is positively ancient in the world of imaginary friends. But Budo feels his age, and thinks constantly of the day when eight-year-old Max Delaney will stop believing in him. When that happens, Budo will disappear. Max is different from other children. Some people say that he has Asperger’s Syndrome, but most just say he’s “on the spectrum.” None of this matters to Budo, who loves Max and is charged with protecting him from the class bully, from awkward situations in the cafeteria, and even in the bathroom stalls. But he can’t protect Max from Mrs. Patterson, the woman who works with Max in the Learning Center and who believes that she alone is qualified to care for this young boy. When Mrs. Patterson does the unthinkable and kidnaps Max, it is up to Budo and a team of imaginary friends to save him—and Budo must ultimately decide which is more important: Max’s happiness or Budo's very existence. Narrated by Budo, a character with a unique ability to have a foot in many worlds—imaginary, real, child, and adult— Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend touches on the truths of life, love, and friendship as it races to a heartwarming . . . and heartbreaking conclusion.

Go HERE to read my previously published review for Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend.


About Matthew Dicks

MATTHEW DICKS is a writer and elementary school teacher. His articles have been published in the Hartford Courant and he has been a featured author at the Books on the Nightstand retreat. He is also a Moth storyteller and a two-time StorySLAM champion. Dicks is the author of three novels, Memoirs of An Imaginary Friend, Something Missing and Unexpectedly Milo. He lives in Newington, Connecticut, with his wife, Elysha, and their children, Clara and Charlie. 





Q&A With Matthew Dicks, Author of Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend 

 1. How did you come up with the idea for Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend?

The idea for the book originates back in childhood. When I was about ten years old, I was speaking to my mother about a trip that we had made to Roger Williams Park in Providence, Rhode Island. I was reminding her of an afternoon spent in the Japanese Gardens, and how Johnson Johnson and I played tag on the connecting islands in the middle pond.

"Matt," she said. "You know Johnson Johnson wasn't real. Right?"

"Huh?"

"You know Johnson Johnson was your imaginary friend. Right?"

"No," I said, thinking my mother was crazy. "Johnson Johnson. The boy who lived with us for a while."

"Matt, there was no Johnson Johnson. He was imaginary."

"No. Johnson Johnson. The boy who lived with us. Like Jessica."

Jessica was a foster child who had come to live with my family for about six weeks, and she was one of several children who my parents would take in from time to time when I was young. In my mind, Johnson Johnson had been just another one of these kids. The first of them.

But it turned out that Johnson Johnson was not real. I had made him up. Even with a brother and a sister, I had somehow needed someone else to keep me company, and so I invented Johnson Johnson, who my mother had always assumed was named after Johnson & Johnson's baby powder. 

I couldn't believe it. Years later I would watch the film Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, a story about technology that allows people to erase unwanted sections of their lives, and I instantly understood the concept and sympathized with the characters. In a single stroke, hundreds of memories of my childhood had been altered forever. The boy who I thought had accompanied me to all of my early adventures had suddenly been erased, and for weeks afterward, I would find my mind stumbling upon memories in which Johnson Johnson still existed. Memories in need of erasing.

I mentioned this to a fellow teacher a couple years ago, and she said it would make the basis for an excellent book. I thought she was crazy, but my agent and wife agreed, so I began writing. I promised to give the book an honest effort for the duration of the summer, but if August was ending and I was not happy with the result, I would shift gears.

It took me one day to realize I had a good story in the works.  I have learned to always listen to my wife and agent.
    

2. When creating the world and mythology of Imaginary Friends, were you aware of the similarities between "ghosts" and imaginary friends? If so, what was your thought process in keeping a clear distinction between the two?

Budo addresses this issue at one point in the book. Ghosts, he explains, were once alive. Imaginary friends were never alive. This also means that ghosts would presumably have a firmer grasp on the real world, having occupied it in a traditional way at one point. Imaginary friends are more prone to confusion and misunderstanding.


3. So there is a little controversy over Imaginary Friend  having difficulty finding a specific audience. To clarify, do you consider the book to be a Young Adult novel, an Adult novel? Neither or both?

I wrote the novel for adults, and while I think of adults as my primary audience, I can certainly see this book crossing over into the YA market as well.


4. Some people have picked up your book because they think the main focus of the novel is about a child that has a form of Autism or Asperger's but in fact, Max's diagnosis is never specifically stated. Can you talk a little bit about that and what you hope readers will get from Imaginary Friend?

My first and foremost goal with any book that I write is to offer readers a good story that will keep them turning the pages and entertained throughout. Any themes that derive from the work come later and often by accident.

That said, I've always been interested in the idea that we encourage children to be themselves and reject peer pressure, but when these children choose to be different and eventually grow into adults who do not conform to our mainstream idea of a normal adult, we punish them for it. Being yourself takes a great deal of courage. In Max's case, he has no choice. Being himself, as different as that may be, is all that he knows how to do, and to go out into the world each day, so different than everyone around him, is an act of courage that we often fail to recognize. Budo calls Max the bravest boy in the world, and I am inclined to agree with him. 


5.  I am aware that Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend was published overseas first, in countries such as the UK, Australia, New Zealand, and South Africa. What kind of reception has Imaginary Friend received in other countries? How about so far here in the United States?

The reception abroad was been amazing. I hear from readers overseas every day about the book, and so far their reactions have been overwhelmingly positive. People identify with many aspects of the book. Some recall imaginary friends from their childhood. others see aspects of their own children in Max. Many have fallen head over heels in love with Budo and his allegiance to Max.


6. Let's talk about the cover art for Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend. I noticed my ARC copy (which just so happens to be my favorite) is different from the cover on amazon.com which I am assuming is the final artwork the publishing company went with. I know many times authors do not have a whole lot of control over the art department. Can you explain the process through your own experience? Also, which cover do you like the most?

St. Martin's Press actually involved me a great deal in the choice of covers, and I couldn't be more grateful. As with most books, there were several options in play at one point, and each one of them was sent my way for feedback and suggestions. Also, because the book is being published in 14 different countries, I have also had a chance to see many of the covers from those those markets as well, so I've been lucky to see several visual interpretations of the book. Ultimately we decided on the cover that we thought would appeal to the greatest number of readers, and it was one of my favorites as well.


7. I pointed out in my review some parallels I noticed between your theme of childhood vs. growing up and the theories Romantic poet William Wordsworth had about childhood. In a nutshell, he believed that children are the closest to God and heaven because their imaginations and spirit haven't been tainted by the responsibilities and sometimes ugly process of "growing up." Are you familiar with Wordsworth and his ideas about childhood? Do you agree or disagree with him? 

Oddly enough, I recall this discussion from my college days, and though I can't remember how I felt about it then, I'm not inclined to agree with Wordsworth today. I have always viewed children as less experienced adults, deserving of all the respect and accountability of an adult. I suspect that this attitude comes from my years of teaching, but I also look back on my own childhood and am able to see a clear line between eight year old version of myself and today's version. There is no magical transformation that takes place between childhood and adulthood. Me is me is me, all the way through.


8. My absolute favorite character is Oswald! And in my review I mentioned how Oswald reminds me of the "mean/misunderstood" ghost in the movie "GHOST" starring Patrick Swayze, Demi Moore, and Whoopi Goldberg. Were you aware of this? And do you have a favorite character in your book?

I know the character you refer to from GHOST, but I had not thought about him at all while writing the book. It's an interesting parallel, though.

Asking me to choose a favorite character is cruel, because I love so many of them, including Oswald. If I were forced to choose, it would probably be Budo, which is a boring answer, I know, but also an honest one. Of all the characters in the book, I know Budo the best, and I admire his allegiance to Max despite the dangers that it may bring.


9. I noticed you are a teacher. When do you find the time to write and are you open with your students about your writing career? What do they think?

I don't sleep very much, and I tend to write within the cracks of life. Ten minutes here. Thirty minutes there. Writers who are too precious with the time and location and beverage required in order to write tend not to write. If you want to write, you always find time.

As for my students, I share a great deal with them about the writing process and my ongoing career. I try to treat them as honest-to-goodness authors, with all the benefits and expectations that come with the job. I want to give them a glimpse into the business of books in hopes that they may be inspired to continue writing beyond the classroom. And they are fascinated by the process. They can't get enough of it, always demanding that I share recent news or tell them a story about something that has taken place as a result of my career.


10. So what are you working on now? 

My new book is the story of a woman who is bullied in high school and suffers one especially traumatic event which she believes changed the course of her life forever. Twenty years later, through a confluence of events, she decides that it is time to return to her hometown and confront the bully who treated her so badly in high school and finally have her comeuppance. It's a story about finding the perfect comeback a little too late, and it's also a book about how often we mistake a person's life as perfection when there is often a much more complicated story underneath.  

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Tuesday, October 2, 2012

One Sick Muse

Hello my poor, neglected Muses.

I am sure some of you have been wondering where the hell I disappeared to. I know it's not uncommon for me to go ghost for a week or two, but I normally will let you guys know it's because I need a break or just got busy with trying to juggle working 2 jobs and the blog.

Sadly, the reason behind my recent absent has been a bit more serious. I ended up getting severely sick, so sick I spend a few days in the hospital last week. YES, I am okay and somewhat on the mend. So now you are probably wondering what kind of sickness? Well, I wish I could give you a definite answer. My doctors and I personally think it's Mono (Mononucleosis), but the tests have come back negative. However, I've heard that negative test results is not uncommon when it comes to Mono, so I am trying to stay positive-- who the hell would want something worse than Mono, right?

I am going to spare everyone the gory details of my illness, but if anyone has ever had Mono, then you know one of the most common symptoms is fatigue. I've been so disgustingly tired, no energy, so that is one of the biggest reasons why I haven't been able to update my blog. It's been very frustrating because I felt like I was finally back to keeping up with reviews and requests and BOOM, had to get seriously sick. BLAH!!!!

Okay, so I am going to try to stay positive by telling you guys about some upcoming goodies that you can look forward to seeing on my blog in the coming weeks. As most of you already know, I read and fell in love with Matthew Dicks' Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend which I reviewed HERE. I've been in contact with Matthew Dicks and he not only completed an author Q&A, but has given me a signed copy of his book to use as a Giveaway! So stay tuned for that! Also, I have finished reading Shadows Cast By Stars by Catherine Knutsson which also blew me away. She agreed to do an author Q&A and Giveaway as well!

So I have some great things lined up. I just need to find the energy to get things up and posted. The good news is, I've been trying to use this downtime to read books that I've been dying to read but haven't had the time to since I normally read ARCS for review or review for requests. It's nice to just read for the pleasure, to grab a random book off my shelf instead of limiting myself to what I HAVE to read. But don't get me wrong. I love reading ARCS and I love getting author requests and helping out in authors in my unique way. But sometimes a girl just needs time to herself. So I am trying to look at the positive in this very depressing situation I find myself in.

I will slowly be making some much needed updates and changes to my blog. Hopefully by next week I can post Matthew Dicks' author Q&A as well as the Giveaway. I want to thank everyone for hanging in there and still stopping by. I promise to start slowly making my rounds to stop by and see what everyone has been up to. I've missed the blog world and my Muses!

Best Wishes,

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Book Review: Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend by: Matthew Dicks

Title: Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend
Author: Matthew Dicks
ISBN: 978-1250006219
Reading Level: Adult/Mature Young Adult
Genre: Fiction
Theme(s): Friendship, sacrifice, bullying, faith, mortality, Autism, Aspergers
Binding: Paperback (ARC)
Length: 320 pgs
Published: 21 Aug. 2012; St. Martin's Press

Synopsis:
Budo is lucky as imaginary friends go. He's been alive for more than five years, which is positively ancient in the world of imaginary friends. But Budo feels his age, and thinks constantly of the day when eight-year-old Max Delaney will stop believing in him. When that happens, Budo will disappear.

Max is different from other children. Some people say that he has Asperger’s Syndrome, but most just say he’s “on the spectrum.” None of this matters to Budo, who loves Max and is charged with protecting him from the class bully, from awkward situations in the cafeteria, and even in the bathroom stalls. But he can’t protect Max from Mrs. Patterson, the woman who works with Max in the Learning Center and who believes that she alone is qualified to care for this young boy.
When Mrs. Patterson does the unthinkable and kidnaps Max, it is up to Budo and a team of imaginary friends to save him—and Budo must ultimately decide which is more important: Max’s happiness or Budo's very existence. 

Narrated by Budo, a character with a unique ability to have a foot in many worlds—imaginary, real, child, and adult— Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend touches on the truths of life, love, and friendship as it races to a heartwarming . . . and heartbreaking conclusion.


My Rating: 

My Review: "I wish there was a Heaven. If I knew there was a Heaven for me, then I would save Max for sure. I wouldn't be afraid because there would be a place to go after this place. Another place. But I don't think there is a Heaven, and I definitely don't think there is a Heaven for imaginary friends. Heaven is only supposed to be for people who God made, and God didn't make me. Max made me." I normally don't start my reviews with a quote, but there are so many great, thought provoking lines like this in which Budo delivers throughout Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend, that I just had to share one of my favorites. And some people call this book, or the writing of this book, insipid and facile? Yeah, I'll get to that later.

Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend by Matthew Dicks is quite an ambitious novel. My initial first thought? How the author was going to differentiate between "imaginary friends" and "ghosts". After all, on the surface they do have some similarities...or one might think. But I soon discovered I had nothing to fear. In fact, the difference between ghosts and imaginary friends does get addressed in the book by Budo himself. He says, "Ghosts were alive once. Imaginary friends are never alive in the real world." 

Dicks did a great job building the world and mythology of "imaginary friends." Every child has a different way of coping with the uncertainties of life, whether it be parents that argue on a daily basis, a life threatening illness, starting school and the social anxieties that comes with it, etc. Perhaps the easiest way to conquer these fears is to share the burden with someone and what better way to do that then to create an imaginary friend. In Matthew Dicks' world, these "friends" can come in many different shapes and sizes and can disappear as quickly as they are imagined. That is why Budo is so very special. Not only does he look like a real human but he is over 5 years old which is unheard of in the world of imaginary friends. This is all thanks to Max, the 8 year old boy who created him.

As the synopsis states above, Max is different then many of the children he goes to school with.  While it is never stated what Max's diagnosis is, it doesn't take a genius to figure out that he has a form of autism or Aspergers Syndrome. While this causes turmoil in the lives of his parents, teachers, and even some of his classmates, Budo is the only one who seems to accept and understand Max for who he is. In fact, I originally thought that the book's agenda was to find out what's "wrong"with Max. I couldn't have been more wrong. This is Budo's story and it is told in his perspective. And while he loves Max and knows deep down that Max being "different" is the reason he has been alive for so long, he still fears the day when Max will stop believing in him. Because when that happens, Budo will start to fade away like so many imaginary friends have done before him.

The whole concept of  a child's imagination reminds me of the Romantic poets, most specifically William Wordsworth. He believed that children were the closest to God because the depths of their imagination and innocence hadn't been tarnished by the realities of adulthood. But the older a child gets, the more responsibility is placed on his/her shoulders, and the child is forced to "grow up." By the time a child reaches adulthood, he/she has forgotten about imaginary friends, instead replaced with work, paying bills, and trying to fit into society's standards. We see the beginning stages of this theory in Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend. The reason many of the imaginary friends Budo knows disappear before him is because the children that created them are growing up, therefore, they are no longer needed.While Max is very intelligent, he also is introverted and struggles with social skills. This is why Budo is needed, to help Max with fending off bullies like Tommy Swinden, or to stand guard in the bathroom while Max makes a "bonus poop" as Budo likes to call them. Yes, I did say "bonus poop". Did I forget to mention this book is also hilarious??

Now to clear up some things. First and foremost, some people have been confused as to the genre and reading level this book should fall under. Some reviewers have given Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend a 2 star rating because they felt it "struggles to find an audience". This is an ADULT novel that just so happens to have a 5 year old imaginary friend as a narrator. I would go so far as to say that mature young adults would enjoy this novel as well. I'm not sure why people automatically assume that if a child is the narrator or if the language is simple then it is considered a young adult novel.

Speaking of "simple", let's talk about the writing style of this book. Some have complained that the story and writing is "babyish", "insipid", and "facile". Umm...did they miss the fact that the narrator is a 6 year old imaginary friend that was created by an 8 year old boy??? What do they expect, Budo to start talking in flowery Shakespearean prose??? If anything, I think Matthew Dicks did an amazing job creating Budo's voice and making it realistic. And I am confused as to how someone could think the story is shallow or that the author ignores the complexities of the issues. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I wonder if they realize what the "issues" of the story actually are. I think people are going into this book thinking it is going to be all about Max and his "condition" and how the people around him deal with it or try to "fix" him. While Max is vital to the story, it is NOT HIS STORY. Budo is the narrator and this is about his journey as an imaginary friend, his fears as to where "friends" like him go when they fade away.

I will say I agree that some of what Budo says is repetitive and somewhere in the middle, the story does lose a little steam. But as you can see by my rating, it didn't bother me enough to take away a whole star. The ending makes up for the little dry spell and somehow the repetitiveness fits, probably because it is never far from my mind that Budo was thought up by an 8 year old boy with limited social skills. But some of the things Budo ponders are questions that sometimes kids ask that we as adults don't have the patience to answer. It reminds me that sometimes the most honest answers come from small children because their responses aren't clouded with the complexities we are used to as grown-ups.

The last thing I want to point out is my love for Oswald, the only imaginary friend that Budo fears. Without spoiling anything, Budo must find the courage to go to Oswald in order to help Max. The reason I am bringing Oswald up is because I couldn't help but think of the movie Ghost starring Patrick Swayze, Demi Moore, and Whoopi Goldberg. Remember when Patrick Swayze sees the ghost on the train that can actually touch and move things? Well that ghost reminds me of Oswald, and Budo in that moment reminds me of Patrick Swayze. Pretty interesting parallel and I have to wonder if the author was or is aware of it!

Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend is a rare breed of novel that can affect a person on so many different levels. Read it if you want to laugh. Read it if you want to be moved to tears. Read it if you want something to think about long after the last page has been read.  Just remember to go into this story with an open mind, remember that this is Budo's story, not Max's, and this is not a doctor's manual on autism or Aspergers. This is a great book for teachers that will prompt many discussions with your students. This is a great book if you are a parent with small children or if you vaguely remember your very own imaginary friend. Whatever the case may be, Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend is a book with heart, and Budo is one character that I will never forget. Well done, Matthew Dicks.